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Sunday, July 14, 2013

BIRTH STORY

Isabella Luz Wells was born on July 14th,2013. 3 days after my birthday. It all the started my birthday morning when I went to the doctor's office to get checked. Turns out I'm 4cm dialated and 90% effaced so they offer to induce me on Sunday if she doesn't come by then. Sunday comes and we decide to get induced. I was so weird just calmly walking into the hospital to go have my baby. I always pictured myself as one of those crazy ladies who walks in screaming in pain "get me the juice!!" Instead I got hooked up to Percocet and in 25 min I was getting contractions. I saw no need for pain so the moment they offered it I accepted the epidural. The man who gave it to me, bless his heart, had a thick Indian accent. I could not for the life of me understand what he was saying. I think he said "roll over like a cat" like 4 times until the nurse translated for him. Instantly the contractions went away. THANK YOU inventor of the epidural!!
It was ll so calm and painless. I kept on dialating and a lady came in and broke my water. We tried watching tv but it just felt weird to watch tv as I waited. About 2.5 hours had passed since I entered the hospital. Then they come in and tell me it's time to push. At this point I felt like I hadn't done anything except roll over like a cat so it all felt like I wasn't having a baby. The pushing part made up for that. I pushed for 2 hours with very little progress. By the way my doctor hasn't even showed up at this point I'm with a nurse and my mom and Stephen are holding my legs apart. TMI but you get the picture. It was not what I expected. Finally Doctor Broadbent shows up and everything speeds up real fast. He says I have two options c section or forceps. We decided on forceps and within 15 minutes he is pulling Isabella out and I hear the sweetest, loudest, baby cries. She came out loud and strong willed just like her momma. My biggest memory of my labor is those 20 seconds when I felt Isabella's little body come out of me. It was such a surreal experience. It was the first time our bodies were separated, up to then it felt like we were one.  As soon as the delivery was over I start crying and can't stop. My whole body is shaking especially my hands. It took me a minute or two before I could hold Isabella because I was nervous of dropping her. I didn't realize how scared I was because the pushing took so long until I held her. Oh what a sweet experience that is. So little, so fragile.
One of the things that makes Isabella's birth so special is what she looked like. From the moments anyone laid their eyes on our new baby it was like looking at a mini Stephen. At that moment in our lives it was just what her daddy needed: a reminder of the potential he had and the greatness he could create. I am so grateful that we were sent such a special gift.






Tuesday, April 23, 2013

PREGNANCY

Being pregnant is awesome in a very crazy, weird, love/hate way. here are my current top six events of pregnancy:
1. Feeling a little human being inside of you: coolest thing ever. Isa loves to kick. I picture her as an energetic strong willed little girl. I will be sitting in the most random place like staff meeting at work and she will start kicking, and i will slowly put my hand in my stomach and enjoy every moment. At nights I like laying on my side because it helps with the heartburn (heartburn story next). Isabella doesn't like it so she will start kicking me on my side until I move. So i'll switch sides. but she'll start kicking my other side too. Finally I give in and lay on my back and start laughing imagining my little stubborn baby smiling inside because she got her way. She is just like her mom.

2. Heartburn. This one is awful in a funny way. So one night I'm by myself laying in bed and all of a sudden I feel my chest burning. I start freaking out thinking I'm having a heart attack. (i had never had heartburn before) I start holding my chest and almost cried and then I remember one of the common pregnancy symptoms: Heartburn. I lay there laughing with relief since I'm not dying but then stop because it makes the heartburn worse.

3. I'm on a seafood diet: I see food and I eat it. So at the beginning of my pregnancy I didn't know how prego ladies gained weight. I never wanted to eat and everything looked gross. After this past month, I definitely know how we gain wait. I eat like a bear. I find myself around the dinner table with people and everyone is saying how stuffed they are and I'm thinking "hmm I could probably eat another plate." Or I'll wake up at 3 in the morning have a bowl of cereal and then wake up in the morning starving as if I've been fasting for days.

4. Hormones. Honestly my mood swings aren't terrible but I have had some funny moments. One night Stephen came home at 6:00am after his 8 hour graveyard shift and found me balling in bed. I had just had a nightmare of my grandma dying and i couldn't stop crying. I seriously cried for about half an hour. Stephen finally just went to the bathroom (since that's the only way we can give each other privacy in our studio apartment) and said he would just let me cry it out. Oh and then the day I got furious at the contact lense lady at Cotsco because she sucks at explaining how their deals work. I drove home bashing on her the whole way and all Stephen said was at least this time you are mad at her and not me (so sad but so true)

5. Soreness. if you see me walking around campus like I just got off a horse don't judge me. My whole body feels like I just ran a marathon. The worse is when I drop something and I have to pick it up or when I am laying in bed and have to take one of my many bathroom breaks. On Sunday I took a bath and was so sore I had to have Stephen pull me out of the bathtub cause I couldn't get up by myself. For some reason this was hilarious to Stephen and he stood there laughing for a minute before helping me out.

6.Gym time. For some weird reason this past month I have loved going to the gym. It helps me work on the mood swings and makes me feel like I'm doing something about the huge belly (even though it keeps growing). Plus it keeps me busy while my poor husband works his butt off in either his work, his internship or school. Yesterday a girl told me I was a champ for being there and to take it easy. And you know what I realized? She is right, I'm a champ for being there! Go me

Can I just fast forward through the next 3 months and have my little girl in my hands?







Thursday, August 16, 2012

HONDURAS 2012




This is what I thought our kids would look like. HAHA!

this street is called "la calle del verinche" our little church branch used to be in the white house right next to the orange one, you can't really see it. but it looks like the yellow and orange one. 

I grew up three houses down from this pulperia. I would go here everyday to buy candy, food and charamuscas. (frozen juice in a plastic bag)



My parent's new home. My dad designed and constructed the whole thing. I like how he put that little window on the top:) It is so rustic and different. Really reflects my dad's personality. 

This is such a my dad picture

I'm not sure what I did here but I was in trouble...

These little taxi's take you all around the little town I live. They are so fun to go in and only cost 50 cents a ride.





Mama Blanca's home is so beautiful and unique. It reminds me of colonial Honduras. With the huge open rooms, the heavy thick windows and doors, and the vibrant colors. She even has the brick floors that can only be cleaned by throwing water at them because they are so rough a mop gets stuck. So much of what she has made or are family heirlooms that have been passed down for generations. There is so much meaning and stories behind everything she owns. 

Her backyard is a little wild but I love it!



Mama Blanca's kitchen is so unique and Honduran. That white structure is an oven made of adobe. Most people have regular stoves now but my grandma kept it because she grew up with them. I love her collection of antique kitchenware and Honduran pots. I spent so many mornings in this kitchen as a girl learning to cook from her. 

Maria's Wedding

El Zamorano

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Stephen's face: "oh boy what are we eating today... I think those look like chicken legs!"



Hike by our house

 


Valle de Angeles







This was Stephen's first trip to Honduras. We spent almost a month there and visited many of my favorite locations: Tatumbla, Valle de Angeles, El Zamorano, and Roatan (which will have a post of it's own).  One of the best parts of going home is eating true Honduran food. I always gain like 5 pounds when I go home haha. Stephen lost like 5 pounds cause he had diarrhea the first week haha. Honduran food is so heavy and most Americans can't handle it. But by week 2 he became a true Honduran and could handle a plate of my grandma's re fried beans cooked in pig fat. Sounds gross but with some cuajada and tortillas right out of the comal mmmm it's making me hungry just writing about it. Poor Stephen, we do eat some weird stuff. Mama Blanca is the worst. She loves feeding Americans gross stuff and then telling them afterwards what it was. She fed Stephen meat from the pig's face and ears and didn't tell him until after he was done. Stephen just smiled and excused himself to go to the bathroom. Hahah just kidding but really though poor Stephen. You could say a lot of of foods are "acquired tastes".
Just looking at these pictures makes me homesick. I love my land so much and it will always have a place in my heart. It was an experience of a lifetime and it truly made Stephen come to love and appreciate where I came from. We spent most our time hiking, biking, eating Honduran food, visiting local places, and visiting people I grew up with. In the mornings Stephen and I would wake up early and go on a run around the pueblo. I think this was Stephen's favorite thing to do. He was able to appreciate the pure air of the mountains I live in and got to see some beautiful areas. I loved when everyone sat at the dinner table playing games as Mama Blanca knitted next to us and said witty comments about who was losing or who had what cards. I remember deciding in this trip that I would raise my children loving and respecting their Honduran heritage and that I would make whatever sacrifices I could to travel with them so they could broaden their perspectives of the world and how other people live. 








Wednesday, August 15, 2012

ROATAN 2012

 




























Ayaayay Roatan let me count thy ways. If there is a place in this world to go it is Roatan. It is a small island located in Islas de la Bahia. It has the second largest coral reef in the world so snorkeling and scuba diving are truly unique experiences. My aunt moved there about 6 years ago and since then my family goes there on vacation a lot. As a wedding present my aunt got us a room in a hotel right on the beach.The rest of my family stayed with my aunt. This was the best vacation Stephen and I have ever been on. At nights we would go out and try island food and then walk along the shoreline as we talked about our trip experiences and life. We spent our time snorkeling, laying out, swimming, eating island food, exploring and spending time with family.